theambitiouswoman:

40 Examples of Self Abandonment 🤕👎💭💔

Self-abandonment means not taking care of yourself, your needs, and your feelings. It’s like ignoring what’s good for you and not being kind to yourself normally in a way that benefits everyone but you.

1. Not eating well or exercising.
2. Pretending to be happy when you’re not.
3. Working too much without breaks.
4. Staying in a bad relationship.
5. Letting people use you.
6. Forgetting about things you enjoy.
7. Not saying what you want.
8. Always doing things for others.
9. Not asking for help when you’re sad or stressed.
10. Being alone when you need friends.
11. Saying mean things to yourself in your head.
12. Giving up your dreams for others.
13. Avoiding problems instead of solving them.
14. Never taking time to relax.
15. Ignoring how you look or feel.
16. Not asking for help when things are too hard.
17. Trying to be perfect all the time.
18. Doing things that hurt you, like drugs or danger.
19. Changing who you are to fit in.
20. Not being yourself and doing what others want.
21. Ignoring your body when it needs rest or sleep.
22. Letting others make decisions for you all the time.
23. Keeping your feelings bottled up inside.
24. Surrounding yourself with people who bring you down.
25. Not pursuing your interests or hobbies.
26. Saying “yes” to everything, even when you’re overwhelmed.
27. Putting up with disrespect or mistreatment from others.
28. Not giving yourself credit for your accomplishments.
29. Skipping important appointments or check-ups.
30. Holding onto grudges and negative emotions.
31. Comparing yourself unfavorably to others.
32. Not taking breaks when you’re stressed.
33. Neglecting your financial well-being and overspending.
34. Ignoring signs of burnout or exhaustion.
35. Avoiding seeking help for mental health struggles.
36. Ignoring your own intuition and gut feelings.
37. Overcommitting and spreading yourself too thin.
38. Constantly seeking validation from others.
39. Letting fear hold you back from trying new things.
40. Dwelling on past mistakes and not forgiving yourself.

redrola:

saidtostaine:

when the effects of media wear off and suddenly you’re just a girl in a room all over again

theambitiouswoman:

what-iz-life:

Heal, so you can recognize genuine relationships with pure intentions when they show up without sabotaging them.

Heal, so you can recognize toxic relationships with bad intentions when they show up and not invest in them.

I am a firm believer that you can’t ruin anything that is for you. But anything that is not for you, can ruin you.

theambitiouswoman:

theambitiouswoman:

warmsol:

august please be good to all the friends in my phone. thank you

noodlegirl-googlyeyes:

gonna be honest. no number of iced beverages can save me at this point

coldbrewnette:

I blog for the girls who cry on their birthdays and lose a little bit of themselves during the summer months

becherdireinen:

I’m such a slut for casual intimacy. Like yesss rest your chin on my shoulder while we’re in line at the grocery store, I live for that shit.

prisonhannibal:

two things: I hate change and having my routines interrupted. I hate things being the same it’s boring

suntara:

my favorite love language is trying, actually

theorangepdf:

getting that august feeling (things that have ended endlessly are ending again)

glumby:

I love the concept of exile. Like dude just get out